I remember telling my parents, “Mom, Dad, one day I’m going to marry the most amazing man in the world and we’re going to be living the life that I’ve always wanted.”

Until just recently, I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t need to marry him, whoever he is . Because, you see, knowing that I love him and he loves me is all I could ask for . And I’d be a fool if I let a small piece of documented paper signify my love for someone . If he feels insecure about me, because we’re not officially married by law, then something is wrong . But I’m not just talking about marriage, I’m also talking about dating in general . I’ve always had the title of being “the girlfriend” while I was in a relationship and when I didn’t have it, it felt odd to me . Being with someone but not having the label . I know most people feel the same way because I, myself, have witnessed it . And so, it dawned on me . I shouldn’t let society tell me that I need the title in order to have a special connection with someone . If we’re good then we’re good, why go ahead and change something.

He should know I’m all his like I’d know he’s all mine, without the official facebook or myspace status label .

I don’t have to be your girlfriend, your significant other, your better half.. I’m perfectly content just being that special lady friend in your life .